The Good Men: Where They’ve Gone…

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The old lady in the photo above isn’t too terrible looking. She has a decent figure and a seemingly genuine smile. If I were to see her on the street, I would probably assume she was happily married.

Her name is Hagar Sides. She’s a sabra who now lives in the Atlanta, Georgia, area. She has a popular (and surprisingly thoughtful) blog, which often gets into relationship territory. Not surprisingly, she writes from the perspective of a radical feminist.

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About a year ago, Mizz Sides wrote:

I’m a 38-year-old woman and I don’t want to be single anymore. I’m ready for a relationship, though I’m having a hard time figuring out the right way to go about it.

Wimminz always write nonsense like this, in a lame attempt to lie to themselves. In fact, Hagar knows exactly how to go about it. She just doesn’t want to go about it in the way every other cool female has done it up: by becoming the feminine subordinate that a quality man would select, based upon her ability to add value to his life.

Hagar is actually “having a hard time figuring out the right way” to become appealing wife material, while remaining a sarcastic, loud, immoral, feminist shrike. This is understandable, because those types of arrogant wimminz never attract or keep quality men.

I know that not all guys are jerks, just like I know that the sun will rise in the morning. However, not only is it difficult to put yourself out there, if a guy like this comes your way, all you want to do is give up on dating and crawl back into your comfort zone.

Mizz Sides is castigating a man she matched with on Tinder, who sent her a vulgar text. I have news for her, (and any other person who gets on Tinder, male or female,) and thinks that they’re going to have largely sensible conversations with normal people.

Tinder is the modern equivalent to the whorehouse, way out in the middle of nowhere, on the Alberta prairie, that my grandfather occasionally slipped away to. There was surely a place like this in Israel someplace, that Hagar’s own grandfather disappeared to on the occasional weekend. Then as now, expecting normal behavior in the whorehouse is unrealistic.

It’s not like my happiness depends on having or not having a man in my life.

And there we have it. This is an extremely common and ridiculous lie that wimminz tell themselves.

Bitch, if you’re happy being single, why do you spend hour after hour writing about how you wish you had a man? Why not get on with enjoying the single life?

The one thing wimminz hate more than becoming attractive mates is the fact that men don’t find them worth their time. This is a completely superfluous dillemma, and yet every feminist wimminz I have ever met has been trapped between its horns.

What happened to this old wimminz to bring her to this state? A visit to her earlier articles might give us a hint.

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Admittedly, the title is both humorous and sensational. I’m making a note to use this as a pick-up line… because it’ll probably work. Let’s see what Mizz Sides can tell us…

People keep asking me, “How come you are still single?”

If only I had a penny every time I have been asked this question; I could buy a lot of things I want and don’t need.

A few years ago I didn’t want any relationship, and it took me a while to realize it and admit it, mostly to myself. I was dubious after a relationship that lasted several months but was full with emptiness, pain, betrayal (his), and I became my own shadow.

So, her man betrayed her. She doesn’t say how. Maybe he fucked some other wimminz, or maybe he just didn’t kiss her ass.

“Hagar!!! what’s wrong with you, I don’t know you like that. Down, lonely, not talking to your friends, ignoring all the warning signs. You have to get rid of him…” my best friend said.

Two days later, I kicked him out from my apartment and started a new journey.

Those of us who have been around divorced people know that wimminz often divorce in groups. First one wimminz will divorce her man, and then several of her friends, like magic, will somehow find a reason to divorce also. For those of you boys who have wondered about this phenomenon, Mizz Sides is giving you a candid look into the back end of it.

I just finished Master’s Degree, found the dream job, and moved to Tel Aviv.

I had a blast in Tel Aviv; I worked hard, I traveled, I went out, drank, danced, laughed a lot. I met new people, and new guys. I had casual sex. I enjoyed every minute.

Now that she’s crowning forty, Mizz Sides is desperate to find a man (even though she doesn’t want to change anything about her degenerate lifestyle, and even though finding a man won’t make her any happier than she already is, etc.) Back in the day, when she was young and hot, finding a man wasn’t much of a priority.

I wonder what changed?

After a crazy year in Tel Aviv, I went back to my parents’ house in the suburbs.
When I left Tel Aviv I thought the world would end. Looking back, leaving Tel Aviv was one of the best thing that ever happened to me.

“I think it’s time to meet someone” I said to my friend.
“Get inside Tinder, sure you’ll find someone” he said.
“Tinder?” I replied with question mark on my face.

He downloads the app to my phone, explained to me how it works, and sent me on my way.

Tinder is not the place to find a spouse. It’s a place to find a prostitute. Most of the men on Tinder are men like me. No matter how attractive or feminine you are, we won’t marry you anyway.

So, how has all of this worked out?

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In one sense, it’s fun to make fun, and Mizz Sides is perfectly mockable; but there’s a lot to learn from her article. Wimminz excuse their poor choices by repainting them as shit that “just happened,” or stuff they were compelled to do by fate or circumstance.

Mizz Sides is now forty years old, and has never managed to attract or keep a man. My guess is that she was very attractive as a 20-year old girl. I also must assume that she mocked and dumped all the eligible boys that came calling, choosing instead to waste time chasing academic degrees and short term flings with unfaithful thugs.

The good news for Hagar is that it’s not too late. She’s still better looking than ~90% of all the 40-year old skanks in Atlanta. She can probably land a decent man, in his fifties, with little trouble.

She just has to shitcan the feminist entitlement complex, humble herself, and convincingly pretend she has never, ever been on Tinder. And that’s the bad news, because she won’t.

Read her articles in full, and let me know what you think in the comments:

Let’s Have Jew Sex

Where Have All The Good Men Gone?

The Week I Froze My Eggs

Author: Boxer

Sinister All-Male Dancer. Secret King of all Gamma Males. Member of Frankfurt School. Your Fave Contrarian!

22 thoughts on “The Good Men: Where They’ve Gone…”

  1. Hagar is actually “having a hard time figuring out the right way” to become appealing wife material, while remaining a sarcastic, loud, immoral, feminist shrike. This is understandable, because those types of arrogant wimminz never attract or keep quality men.

    Not only is her personality horrible wife material…it’s even worse mother material. I’ve seen enough evidence of loud, sarcastic, immoral mothers who in turn have criminal or cad sons and daughters who are expert prostitutes and/or financial extortionists.

  2. The one thing wimminz hate more than becoming attractive mates is the fact that men don’t find them worth their time.

    So basically they hate being feminine and they hate the fact that (higher quality) men find unfeminine women unattractive.

    The last part of that dilemma you failed to mention is the type of guy who would find her attractive I would bet she’d see as very unattractive and she’d either have to settle or stay single. I’ve seen through enough of the theatrics to get that even the most hardcore feminist hates a man who submits to her. Heck being a true stone cold misogynist seems to attract them much better than a simp.

  3. Lets see ..

    I’m 50 .. I’m single .. I’m a Nuclear Instrument Technician and previous Nuclear Operator .. I make decent money .. I’ll retire early .. And I too have wondered .. “WHERE HAVE ALL THE GOOD WIMMINZ GONE” .. hmmmmm

    It’s a real mist-tour-ee ..

    I sure hope ONE (i.e. of these thursty womminz) will find me and add that missing “value” to my life I so miss .. /S

    Boxer .. men my age .. that have banged over 300 babes aren’t interested in these born again fem-bots .. we’ve been adding value to our lives for longer than they’ve been getting thwir bottom bamged out ..

    And .. yes .. I can retire early .. and chase twenty year olds wearing less cotton than a bottle of tie-lin-all.

    Enjoy the cats Hagar.

  4. On “Let’s Have Jew Sex” she cries that men flat out ask for sex and some woman will go with that. She’s had a ton of casual sex, but doesn’t see a problem. For her, you have to work for it or it is meaningless. You want sex? Do a song and a dance and make her feel special with a little romance:

    “And for us women, we want to be courted and when woman says she is not, she is lying to herself.”

    Well why should I man do that? If you’ve already devalued sex by placing it outside of marriage, the “song and dance” is just theatrics. She just wants to live in a magic world of fairies and unicorns where she doesn’t have to admit that she’s spent her life devaluing sex. Pandora’s Box is empty.

    On “Where have all the good men gone?” she gives a list of things she wants in a man, and it’s mostly a description of myself with my wife. The problem isn’t the list, it’s that it’s only about her needs:

    “It’s not like my happiness depends on having or not having a man in my life….I do want to feel loved.”

    I want this and that but I don’t want to have to do anything to get it.

    On “This week I froze my eggs” she goes with the false hope of freezing her eggs. At 38 she’s nearly too too late and statistically speaking she’ll never use those eggs. Waste of $10,000. She’s also too old and unprepared to be a proper first time mother. She should have stayed a virgin and married at 21. She would have a horde of children by now and have been done by 38. Give or take, this is what my wife and I did. It’s quite the contrast, really, between two people who were intentional and honest about what they wanted and one person who has spent her life lying to herself.

  5. During the what very little time I spent in Israel years ago, I was struck by the pleasant fact that Sabra women didn’t appear to be the bitchy, neurotic monsters that are their North American sisters in the diaspora. Is Hagar an exception to the norm in Israel, or has the militantly feminist Jewish West contaminated the women there over the last couple of decades?

    Either way, Hagar is the stereotypical wreck of a Jewish woman. Following the stereotypical path of her American Jewish sisters, her chances of ever marrying are about the same as mine of becoming wealthier than Bill Gates and Jeff Bezos combined. Women like her are man repellent. Even in the highly improbable event that she does marry, it will be a miserable and short-lived union. She KNOWS, if only on a visceral level, that she is a repulsive human being and that any man who settles for her is of low quality, one she could never love or even respect.

  6. The Good Men post has a wish list for what she wants in a man! Begin mini-fisking:

    “I remember writing this list after spending a few days with a guy who made me think what I Don’t want, so I came up with the list of what I do want. I want him to walk with me, by my side and not ahead of me”

    Entitlement complex.

    “I want him to give me compliments”

    Entitlement complex.

    “My best friend. Lover.”

    Emotionally useful to her.

    “Wanting to take photos with me. Show affection.”

    Emotionally useful to her.

    “Smells good. Well Dressed. Confident. Honest.”

    Oh, really? The woman pictured above wearing denim jeans and a plain shirt to meet men wants a well-dressed man. Hold up… why is ‘smells good’ on this list? Most people just assume good hygiene… eww, never mind.

    “Aware of his weaknesses”

    Incompatible with Confident.

    “Love my laugh”

    Incompatible with honest. Also, emotionally useful to her.

    “Social”

    Emotionally useful to her.

    “Intelligent”

    Where have all the smart men gone? They never come near me.

    “Gentleman”

    Wealthy Cuckee

    “Loves food”

    OH, NO! She’s got a fat grenade! Run for your lives!

    “Dreamer”

    Emotionally useful to her. Did I already say that?

    “World traveler”

    Financially useful to her.

    “Ambitious”

    Every man who wants to do better than her will refuse to settle for her. But she’s getting around it the right way. First make a list of demands, next take a hostage, and soon the good men will arrive and pay attention to her. Until the sniper gets a clear shot. Yep, that must have been a crazy year in Tel Aviv.

  7. “If I were to see her on the street, I would probably assume she was happily married…She’s still better looking than ~90% of all the 40-year old skanks in Atlanta.”

    I know, right? She’s an age-relative 9 out of 10: attractive with no major wall damage. If she had a husband, he would think she was the most attractive woman out there at their age. Alas, her damage is internal.

  8. She’s had a ton of casual sex, but doesn’t see a problem.

    Because the dirty little secret is sexual immorality messes up both masculinity and femininity. And regardless of how degenerate people become…they are still attracted to the complementary sexuality. Men will find women who have dysfunctional femininity unattractive.

  9. “Aware of his weaknesses”

    Incompatible with Confident.

    Or knows he’s emasculated and will display it often for her entertainment.

  10. This is a good illustration of how women are trained to never take responsibility or blame for their actions or situation. If men are avoiding them long enough, you’d think they’d put together that the common thread there is them. But it’s always hamsterbated away to be the men, and the men and others around them aid them in the rationalization. While it’s true she’s attractive for a 40+ year old, most probably rationalized it to her that way if she ever said anything. With her, as most wimminz, it’s not the looks that ever disqualified them. It’s their piss poor attitudes, coupled with their pursuit of the feminist merit badges.

    Ultimately, it’s a very simple thing with a very simple solution, but the wimminz could never bring themselves to it.

  11. With her, as most wimminz, it’s not the looks that ever disqualified them. It’s their piss poor attitudes, coupled with their pursuit of the feminist merit badges.

    Bingo…most women who aren’t morbidly obese or gone full clown are attractive looking…it’s when they start talking or you witness their actions is when you start to get the full picture.

  12. Dear Fellas:

    I know, right? She’s an age-relative 9 out of 10: attractive with no major wall damage. If she had a husband, he would think she was the most attractive woman out there at their age. Alas, her damage is internal.

    Here’s the kicker: She doesn’t even have to fix the damage. She just has to convincingly hide it, and discipline herself to playing the part of a nice wife in public. These bitches won’t even comply with these sorts of zero-effort demands.

    Ultimately, it’s a very simple thing with a very simple solution, but the wimminz could never bring themselves to it.

    I know. What she’s pretending to say is some shit like:

    There’s not a single nice Jewish widower, age 45-55, in all of Atlanta Georgia.

    Which is 100% bullshit. Atlanta is a big city. There’s probably at least a thousand, and she can find them at weekly mixers and events, where they’d snatch her and wife her up. Those men are “too boring” and “not rich enough” and “have too much baggage” for skank-ho princess, so she’s not going to bother.

    What she’s actually saying is some shit like:

    There’s not a single trillionaire with a 9 inch penis who looks like Brad Pitt, who wants to settle down and pay my bills in Atlanta, while I fuck all sorts of other men on the side, before setting him up for the divorce courts.

    On the upside, the frequency of sluts like this allow the nice religious girl to punch way above her weight. All a smart female has to do is to not get tatted up, learn to be modest and feminine, and she’ll be able to score that same nice dude who “isn’t man enough” for Mizz Sides.

    Hagar here can work as a housekeeper in that girl’s house, and maybe take care of the smart chick’s kids, while using that master’s degree to get ever more prestigious gigs blogging. It’s a win-win for everyone.

  13. All a smart female has to do is to not get tatted up, learn to be modest and feminine, and she’ll be able to score that same nice dude who “isn’t man enough” for Mizz Sides.

    Heck I’d marry a gal like that in a heartbeat.

  14. Heck I’d marry a gal like that in a heartbeat.

    I talk to you, Jason and Renee, and I wonder why you all aren’t married already. There actually are nice people out there. Admittedly, they’re in the minority, but they do exist.

    As an aside, Hagar’s pickup line appears to be not entirely useless.

  15. I haven’t found the woman who wants to be married to me yet…it’s not because of a lack of trying on my part or being involved with clearly unmarriageable women.

  16. @Boxer…

    Is she already trying to dress you and dictate your life? No wonder you knew that was the signal.

  17. Is she already trying to dress you and dictate your life? No wonder you knew that was the signal.

    She’s actually a nice girl. She’s a skank-ho with me because I’m not part of her usual crowd. She’s cute, not beautiful. She’s still young enough to quit wasting her life and get a decent husband. She loves her parents and isn’t overly feminist. Her “wear a red shirt” quip was a joke, and (bonus points) it was actually funny in context.

    I hope you guys forgive the cliché, but I actually do try to real-talk some of these wimminz into stopping the whoring before it’s too late. I don’t delude myself with lots of self-congratulatory justifications about “returning them better than I found them.” I just don’t bother to lie to them. Every wimminz who acts as my slut is wasting valuable time, while their pull (i.e. fertility and beauty) is notably diminishing.

    And no, I don’t expect this one (or any one) to take my advice. Someday, one of them might, but I don’t count on it.

  18. At the Let’s Have Jewish Sex link, Hagar Sides writes Invite her to a drink at the bar, not in your home. Be interested in the woman standing in front of you. You may find her worth a little more than a fuck (or not) but at least you made her feel special. … And for us women, we want to be courted and when woman says she is not, she is lying to herself. We want to stand in front of the mirror for hours and get dressed, we want to consult with our BFF and we want to feel butterflies. So why the hell we settle for so little if we deserve a lot more? … So how come I’m still single? The answer is very simple, I didn’t meet the man that would make me feel what I wrote few lines up and be worthy of me.

    Ten to twelve years after getting married, surrounded by 3 children she adores and who adore her, with a husband who makes enough money to pay all the bills and have something left over, how much will anything written in that first paragraph matter to the woman? I think most women, including Ms. Sides would agree to themselves, if not publically, that having the things stated in this second paragraph are far more valuable than having the things listed in the first paragraph.

    Yet the Ms. Sides of the world let the absence of those things written in the first paragraph keep them from obtaining those things written in the second paragraph. The great grandmothers and great great grandmothers of the world mostly never received the things written in the first paragraph, yet they mostly ended up with the things written in the second paragraph. When was it that today’s women started not receiving or not understanding that truth?

    This is a special application of the cliche The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single (first) step. One cannot get the things desired that come later on in the journey if the let everything stop them from taking that first step. This is true of everyone, not just women who desire to be kept and have babies.

  19. She’s actually a nice girl. She’s a skank-ho with me because I’m not part of her usual crowd. She’s cute, not beautiful. She’s still young enough to quit wasting her life and get a decent husband. She loves her parents and isn’t overly feminist.

    And she will be unmarriageable material. Women can’t be just a little promiscuous with a cad without it affecting them in a big way should they get a husband. That niceness and pleasantness turns bitter after even a little go around on the carousel. I know you say not to fetish virgins because they can turn just as much as any other woman…but the truth is they would have a higher likelihood of being more feminine going into a marriage which is another reason they are appealing.

    A woman can certainly choose to either get on the slut train and get slut rewards or stay off the slut train and get the rewards of not being a slut. There is no ‘cake and eat it too’ scenario.

  20. “There is no ‘cake and eat it too’ scenario.”

    That’s untrue. A reasonably attractive woman who can present as well-mannered can slut it up for two decades and still land a quality husband and all the trappings of a happy, UMC, two parent, white picket fence family. Like Boxer said, it would take minimal effort.

    Given this woman’s situation, I’d guess one of two things:

    1. She knows it would take minimal effort but doesn’t actually want a husband so much as she wants blog fodder and attention

    2. Given her pictures, she has ‘reasonably attractive’ covered – but maybe it’s the “well-mannered” bar she just can’t clear

    My money is on the first. She’s attractive and educated, she’s watched the people around her start families and break families. She knows how the world works, what men want, and what it takes marry a man of X quality – she just pretends not to for blog hits, and to hide her experience and manipulative nature from any man she may be interested in.

  21. A reasonably attractive woman who can present as well-mannered can slut it up for two decades and still land a quality husband and all the trappings of a happy, UMC, two parent, white picket fence family.

    We just had an article pointing out that it is not the case…along with more articles from women lamenting they are single. Plus stats (which are good posts Dalrock does) showing the growing number of women in their 30s who have never married and every year it has been going up. Sure she might have done it for pity attention blog hits…but she still pointed it out. If you don’t think promiscuity and the results of it (divorce) aren’t playing a part, you aren’t paying attention.

    I mean if it is easy for a slut to get their ATM simp…then the never married numbers for women in their 30s should be steady or declining.

  22. Gunner Q,
    You made me LOL hard!

    “Loves food”
    OH, NO! She’s got a fat grenade! Run for your lives!

    Ain’t that the truth. I like food about as much as the next guy, but I constantly deny myself food, and work out to stay in good shape. Women will quit doing that when they have a man trapped. They’re selfish that way.

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